Four years ago, I wrote this article and I still find it insightful! Presently, I am blissfully married for nearly two years, with a handsome growing baby boy. God bless you as you take in the essential from the following piece.
Greetings in Christ dear and beloved Daughter of Zion!
Well, today I’ll like to speak quite briefly about being around Daddy God’s Kingdom business as a single lady, before you say ‘yes, I do’.
Firstly, it’s important to understand that you won’t begin your destiny after you get married; you commence it NOW! Thus, you’ve got to discover the reason why Daddy God created you and BEGIN doing it to bring delight unto Daddy God.
Few months ago, the LORD spoke to me regarding marriage; He said: ‘’Don’t venture into marriage without discovering your reason of creation and begin carrying it out. Your destiny isn’t really wrapped in your marriage for it’s just part of your journey here on earth. Seek firstly why I created you…the ministry I’ve called you into and start doing it.‘ Unfortunately, many single young women in the LORD don’t see it this way; some are deceived to believe that they will be ‘complete’ (that’s start their destinies)once they get married(please, don’t get twisted by such a lie). As a single lady, it’s so pertinent that you give yourself wholly to the advancement of the Kingdom of Daddy God. Discover the ‘why’ for which you were created for there’s a specific Plan Daddy God has for you. Hence, FIND IT OUT AND GET DOWN TO DADDY’S BUSINESS!
As I meditated within me, a Truth dawned upon my heart concerning Proverbs 18:22(KJV); it says:
‘Whoso findeth a wife FINDETH a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.’
Wow! The Spirit of the LORD caused me to understand something that I’ll NOW explain.
As said previously: DISCOVER the reason of your Creation and start DOING it! Why? Because once you KNOW what Daddy God created you to DO, and BEGIN…it’s therein that you shall be FOUND by your new Adam! Isn’t that blissful? Yes, for the word ‘find’ means ‘to come upon by searching or effort ‘. This search occurs mainly ‘unconsciously’, as long as the man abides in the will of Daddy God(that’s being about Daddy God’s business…walking in his destiny in Christ and walking according to Daddy God’s timing), Daddy God will OPEN his eyes to know that you
are his and he is yours: thus, he FINDS you, the bone of his bones and the flesh of his flesh, the woman with whom he will accomplish Daddy’s will here on earth. Consequently, such marriage will provoke Daddy’s favour upon all your home.
Thus, my dear Lady, don’t make the mistake of believing that you’ll know ‘after’, for NOW is the Time… the time to know Daddy God deeply and walk in your divine destiny. This is the Time to grow in the LORD, even in your fellowship with the Holy Spirit. Develop your character and learn to be a wise, industrious and hard-working woman.
Proverbs 31:10 says,
‘A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.’
Furthermore, Proverbs 12:4 says:
‘A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.’
My dear Lady, be about Daddy’s business[that is, be at the right Place]: launch into your glorious destiny in Christ – ! For therein your Man shall FIND you and he will know, void of doubt, that you’re the Woman fashioned for him. He will see the Woman that shares the Vision placed within him by Daddy God, a help-meet for him(Genesis 2:18) .
So, herein I have expressed the Way to be “FOUND” by the man for you; it’s that simple and unique! Daddy God so loves us that He reveals unto us His secrets so that we may walk upon the high and prosperous places in every area of our lives, even our marriages.
Daddy God bless you dear Daughter of Zion as you act upon this godly advice.